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Definitions of Love:
- Simple Infatuation: is often called a "crush" or "puppy love."
It commonly strikes those in the early teens or younger.
Usually the object of infatuation is some highly idealized
person who is some years older it could be the teacher, an uncle or aunt,
a friend of the family, an actor or actress. Simple
infatuation seldom lasts long. But infatuated people may be
greatly moved with emotion. They spend much time in daydreams
and wishful fantasies.
- Romantic Infatuation: is often called "romantic love" or
simply "love." It is a mix of sex and emotion - not genuine
love at all. It will not of itself support a marriage. It
also leads to idealizing the person, having a much stronger
sex interest in each other, and justifying a premature
marriage. Romantic infatuation is therefore very dangerous
because people will easily fool themselves to act out their
intense feelings and sex urges. Romantic infatuation is
"false love," but it may develop into real love, but it will
take a lot of time.
- Sex Interest: is a deep biological drive that seeks some
erotic expression. It is possible for people to enjoy sex
with someone, yet have absolutely no other interest in them
except sensual satisfaction.
- Real Love: exists when your strong tender feelings for the
other are balanced by reason and deep respect. You care just
as much for the other person's welfare and fulfillment as you
do for your own. Judgments about the person are quite
objective and rational. The two of you have many values and
ideas in common. You share similar goals and ideals. All
these factors will probably be able to support and sustain a
happy relationship over a long period of time.
If you're infatuated, your emotions will be in charge. In real love,
your reason is ruling your emotions. However, REAL LOVE and
ROMANTIC INFATUATION are easily confusing people because they
have one thing in common - strong feelings of attachment to
the other person. Moreover, people in real love have some
degree of infatuation and infatuated people have some degree
of real love.
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